Building Past Failure

The single sentence that came crackling through the radio signal from almost a quarter-million miles from Earth sounded simple, even routine. “Houston, we’ve had a problem.” The three crew members of the Apollo 13 spacecraft circling the moon knew that something had gone terribly wrong with their spacecraft after hearing the sound of an explosion and watching their electricity-generating fuel cells go dead.

The planned moon landing was aborted and emergency measures were put in place for the crew to coax their crippled craft back toward Earth. Three days later the capsule splashed down in the Pacific. NASA called the mission “a successful failure.”

Decades after the Apollo project, it was a film telling of the story of the “successful failure,” Apollo 13, that won widespread acclaim–not the success story of Apollo 11. Ron Howard’s movie gives the inside story of how three men trapped in a fragile, cramped spacecraft hundreds of thousands of miles from Earth were able to overcome a lack of oxygen, water, and electricity to limp back to Earth. They improvised perilous rocket burns to put them on the right trajectory. They rebuilt mechanical systems in the craft. And dozens of young engineers, computer programmers, aeronautics experts, and others worked together to move past the failure of the spacecraft.

Success is not about avoiding or denying failure. It is about building past failure. If “success” means little if any failure, then the only way to achieve it is to never try anything new.

Failures are inevitable. The question is: how will we build past them? And will other people let us move past them? Will others do what God never does: label us as hopeless “failures.”

We might not want to deal with failure–just focus on one accomplishment after the other, don’t let disappointments distract, and move forward on the path of least resistance. But this would not be good leadership. There are numerous reasons failure is not entirely a bad thing.
Admitting failure is to live in reality. Influencers who live with the fantasy that they have never made mistakes just look ridiculous. They have a hard time gaining credibility in the eyes of others because everyone watching wants to learn how to move past their own failures.

Dealing with failure is not the occasional distraction from our mission; it is the mission. The metanarrative of Scripture goes from creation to fall to redemption to glory. Living as we do in the age of redemption means that life is a continual battle to suppress sin, defeat ignorance, and restore relationships. That is, to build past failure.

Moving past failure is the norm in all biblical examples of leadership. A young Moses killed a man as a vigilante act. David committed adultery and had a disastrous family life. Elijah the prophet stood up to the prophets of Baal, but ran away from a wrathful woman. Peter denied Jesus three times. On his great missionary journeys, Paul experienced one success after another, but also had long periods when no one was responding, and had to deal with broken relationships with his fellow Christian leaders at every turn.

And in each case, God who is gracious, helped people get back on their feet.

There is an underlying biblical theology of dealing with failure, which shapes the purpose of spiritual influence. We are broken creatures living in a broken world. The evidence of that is as diverse as disease, war, child abuse, divorce, addiction, economic injustice, and earthquakes. In the face of such forces human leadership is incomplete. But the creator of the universe, out of compassion, is on a campaign of restoration. God is the influence; God is the leader. He uses people as his instruments in this great campaign. In taking up the task of spiritual influence, we join the battles against ignorance, sin, and inequity. And along the way we will have to deal with our own failures.

[to be continued…]

21 thoughts on “Building Past Failure”

  1. This was just what I needed to read today. It hits the target right on the bullseye. We need to be reminded that our failures should not leave us motionless. Great topic.

  2. these words are so true and yet like many words of the bible many people will not listen or believe because to me failure is somewhat like faith you must believe.

  3. Refreshing and solid reminder of the place failure has in our lives and leadership. Often the weight we put on it is quite different than the weight God puts on it. Lots to ponder, pray about and integrate here. Thanks!

  4. I can connect to this story on so many levels…having failed or believing that I was a failure..I now can take strength from this story…

  5. Thank you, Mel.

    Yes, we can learn from failure and sometimes garner experience(s) and knowledge that enriches us. It can make us stronger and teach us things about ourselves and our lives that make us better. It’s difficult to believe that when you are going through it, but often times failure is a gift.

    Failure can bring us closer to God, at least that has been my experience. (His eye is on the sparrow.)

  6. Thanks Mel. I have failed and am refreshed.

    In Genesis chapter one someone pointed out to me that the creation story doesn’t begin with creation out of nothing but creation from chaos. The words for chaos, formless and void come from Hebrew words that express the idea that some form of judgment has taken place. The chaos is the result of this judgment. God takes chaos and brings life and beauty and order from it. I asked myself why this would be the first thing that we see God doing? Perhaps because this is what God loves to do, bring beauty, order and life from chaos. For we who fail, this gives us great hope in God.

    1. Thanks Mark for the insight into Genisis, I had never noticed that before. I believe it was John Maxwell who said people are not successful because they never make mistakes. They are successful when they know how to recover from mistakes. The more we serve Christ, the more resistence we get from the evil one. Of course we will fall sometimes. I really believe the key to making a significant difference for Christ, is to continually ask forgiveness for faults and just keep getting back on track. Just not letting our mistakes from the past keep us from continuing to serve him.

      Really appreciate your insight into creation. I have a friend who really needs to hear what you wrote.

    2. Thanks for taking us to a wider perspective, Mark. I think you are right. Our confidence that God will help us past our failures is not because we believe God has pity on us, but because he loves what he has created, and does not intend to leave it broken.

  7. Thanks Mel. I need these reminders. Could someone please forward these helpful words to Tiger Woods and John Edwards? Chuck Colson’s turnaround made a huge difference.

    1. I have to confess, my instincts are to be cynical when you mention Woods and Edwards. But then I remember, Colson was a cutthroat mercenary kind of guy–and God wonderfully go ahold of him.

  8. David Roberson

    This is a great piece of work, I really needed to read this as I myself move past what I would consider a failed project. Dealing with failure is really part of the mission of life. Thank God that there are biblical characters for us to glean from as we mature to the people of God that He desires us to be.

  9. Regina Refosco from Brazil

    Pr. Mel,
    I have been living revewing my failures and concluding that they are, at least, a good opportunity from God to me to try to put my life in order in some situations, and in other situations a very great open door for great accomplishments for The Glory of Him and joyfull for me.
    (Excuse me for my English)

  10. What an inspiration. This gives the morale to push on. Simple advise, let us avoid temptations of deliberate failure and just console ourselves that after all, even great men make mistakes. From the Christian point of view, God will not tolerate repeated mistakes i imagine. Let us seek the guidance of the holy spirit in whatever we do.

    God Bless You

  11. you said, “Dealing with failure is not the occasional distraction from our mission; it is the mission.”

    It took me 4 or 5 tries to understand that, and now it makes so much sense. We are ambassadors of reconciliation!

    I wonder why it was so hard for that phrase to connect in my head…

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